Nate’s Place

1. Have you ever dated/married purely for money?

No, but sometimes I wish I had.  No, in all seriousness, I’ve never been one to look at money as the bottom line on a relationship.  But I’d be lying if I didn’t state I’d think it be nice to meet someone who actually was a bit well off.  I’m not a pig headed man who thinks it’s a mans obligation to be the bread winner.  If I dated a girl who made more than me, I’d be okay with that.  Unfortunately it seems my lot in life to meet women who tend to financially struggle.

2. What is your type?

I’m not exactly sure what this question really entails, but I suppose my ‘type’ would be someone who is genuinely hearted, compassionate and empathetic to others.  Someone who believes in God and likes animals and children.  I like women that are slightly athletic and intelligent.  I like a certain degree of spontaneity and adventure.  I like a woman who know how to dress for the occassion….meaning jeans and cowboys boots at the rodeo, elegant dress for a ball, provactive clothing at a club, and sexy lingerie in the bedroom.  I like girls that are clean, wear the appropriate amount of makeup and exude a level of sexy and confident playfullness without being arrougant and stuck up.  A bit on the tall side, tan lines a plus.  A passionate kisser and a streak of naughty in them.

3. What is the best sex game you have ever played?

I like  a little roll playing on occasion, but if we’re talking actual ‘games’ like board/card games….then I suppose I enjoyed strip poker with Michelle back in the day, some blindfold/trust games with Bella, and some naughty game I played with Karen once where one die had body parts on it, the other was an action verb to perform.

4. Have you ever given or received an orgasm from a person whose last name you did not know?

Yup.  On both accounts.  Had a few enocunters in college where we never exchanged last names.  One was in an alley way I once told you all about.  No clue on who she was.

5. Have you ever masturbated in front of a sexual partner?

Oh yeah.  I’ve taped myself once for a girl, and she did the same in kind.  I had one girl put on a show for me on my bed as I sat in a chair and watched, and yet another asked me to masterbate on her both in the shower and on her bed as she awaited me to cum on naked body.  Now that I think about it, I can’t think of a girl who hasn’t done it in front of me that I was with.  But each experience and memory is unique in it’s own way.  If I’m lucky….I may try and play some of these questions back out in one capacity or another tonight.

Bonus (as in optional):At what age do you think men and women reach their sexual peak? Do you think you have hit yours yet?

I’ve once heard men reach their peak in their late teens, or early 20’s.  I don’t think that applies to me, or my male friends.  I’ve been feeling pretty sexual for almost 20 years now and I think I’m just as randy today as I was when I was 19…and my friends I’ve known for years are just as horny today too.  Hopefully I haven’t hit mine yet….a lot of it depends on the partner and what they can get out of you as well.

On the flip side I hear more and more about women peaking in their 40’s…hence maybe the cougar syndrome and MILF factor.  I think women are definetly more in-tune with their bodies beginning in their late 20’s and throughout their 30’s.  Looking back, sex with 30-something women was indeed better than my first few girlfriends in my late teens…but it depends on the girl/woman.  Bella, Sharyn, Karen were leap years ahead of some other women who were older than them or about the same age.  So I don’t think I could really qualify or quantify this premise.