Nate’s Place

Heh, for lack of anything new, I noticed a few of the blogs on the circuit today have a TMI Tuesday category, and I thinks it’s a cool idea.  Today I came across this same Q&A session from about 4 other like minded blogs (which reminds me….I need to update my links again…found some great new ones, and I need to remove some of the older ones that appear to be dead), and so basically I’m in rip-off mode today.

Question #1: What is your favorite color lingerie?  I personally like the colors of black, teal/turqoise, natural (neutral/tan/beige), and white (especially if lace material on a tan body) or any combination thereof such as teal trimmed in black.  I’ll go into further detail and say I like body suits, baby dolls, farter belts and stocking.  Not too keen on corny outfits like nurse uniforms or French Maid outfits.

Question #2: Do you have a porn collection?  Yes, but it has changed over the years.  When I first was on my own, VHS was all the rage (pre DVD), so I had collected quite a few VHS tapes.  Mostly they are all amateur or gonzo variety (AKA: Reality based – no script or plot) and many Randy West Up & Cummers titles.  They are mostly dated now…produced in the 90’s and the haircuts, makeup, and production values are starting to show.  I rally hate to get rid of them as I think of them more as collector items now.  Quite honestly I may watch one VHS tape every 4-5 months now from my collection.  They just seem to take up space now and I’m too lazy to convert them all to DVD.  I have a few commercially produced DVD’s, but very few.  Lately, my collection consists of amateur content I have downloaded and burned to either CD’s or DVD’s I watch on my PC.  I have to say more than is probably healthy….my biggest problem is, I watch once and move on to the next, probably why my collection is bigger than is ‘normal’.  I have no magazines….I actually used to buy an occasional Penthouse, Playboy and a few random others, but they have all been thrown out at this point.  I have a few personal pictures of past girlfriends, both knowingly posed and some not knowing….some bring back great memories, others not so much anymore.

Question #3: Do you have any fetishes?  I don’t think mine are very bizarre at all and borderline tame.  I love denim jeans.  I loved girls in cowboy boots.  I love tan lines.  I enjoy hoop earing sand frost lipstick (a holdover from the 80’s?…probably my Miami Vice phase).  I think my weirdest one is I kinda like girls who have minor gimp injuries….like bandaged ankles and broken wrists….like I want to nurse them back to health or something mentally odd like that.

Question #4: What is your favorite place to have sex?  This is harder than I thought to give one answer.  I like sex in semi-public areas…but not too public…like maybe a jacuzzi or a secluded beach or park or car where there may be some elment of danger of getting caught.  Otherwise in a house I guess I like the bathroom and living rooms and balconies….I think bedrooms are very cliche and boring.  I always like sex in hotel rooms…I really let down my hair I guess when I realize I’m not the one cleaning up the next day (sorry house keeping).

Question #5: Do you like to scratch, bite, pull hair, etc?  Do you like it being done to you in return?  I like to pull hair once in a while when I’m feeling a little rough, maybe an occasional bite on the ass cheek or neck.  In return, I like when a woman nibbles on my ear, kisses my neck, tries to play a little rough by ‘attempting’ to pin me down or force herself on me…as long as it doesn’t hurt.

Bonus: Do you think the number of sexual partners is below average, average, or above average, and how does that make you feel?  This one is really hard to compare.  I guess if I were to compare myselves to my friends and family and coworkers (if they are being honest with me), I’m probably above average.  Now, if I what I read on other blogs is true or compare my self to recent studies (assuming people are telling the truth) I am probaly below average to average.  How do I feel?  Well, I can honestly say I am not always proud of every incident.  There are some I wish never happened because they hurt friendships, I don’t remember them as well as I think I should have, the feelings weren’t 100% reciprocated.  On the other hand there are a few times I turned sex down, and now I wonder why I did, and I wonder if those were missed opportunities for meaningful relationships.  I guess I don’t know how I feel….Despite what I write here, I do not go around in public and brag or boast about conquests…outside these posts, I think my friends would be very surprised and shocked if I told them my secrets.  Then again, there are weeks and even months that I fee